Each person
must have their own lead style, there is a firm, flexible, rigid, some are
authoritarian, some are indifferent, and maybe not a little bit angry if his
subordinates make a mistake in work. If it happens to have a boss who is easy
going sih nice-aja, well what if our boss is rada fierce, where all things in
the work must be in accordance with his standards.
Well this
time, thread ane will jelasin about how the hell agan cysts responding to the
boss type who like to grumble-nagging. Perhaps some of the cysts have had bad
experiences about this type of boss, or even some who hold a grudge, because
the pain is so deep. I'm so sad. Previously we see first why sad agan sista
need to know how to deal with angry boss:
1. Have
angry boss can make the men fear
Having a
temperamental boss, who is easily angry for no apparent reason, or who just
nagging just because of trivial problems, can make us as a child so easily
frightened. Surely there will be a fear that always comes to the office again,
to be sometimes sometimes reluctant. Having a boss like this can be a nightmare
for employees. Instead of working with a pleasant office atmosphere, this can
even make the atmosphere of the office so the most make lazy.
2. Quality
of work so less maximal.
When we have
excessive fear can make us not maximal in work. This is very possible, because
the unpleasant office atmosphere can make the karwayan not feel happy, do not
enjoy and lead to not maximal we work. If you have a grumpy boss, employees may
be increasingly added stress by the workload plus the fear of the boss or boss.
3. Easy
stress and make uncomfortable, finally select Resign!
The longer
the fear experienced by agan sista, can result in increasing the level of
kesetresan yangbulkan by discomfort to work. As the saying that we always hear,
if the patient has patience limit. Well, if agan sista already felt dipuncak
kesetresan in work, the result of work is not maximized due to fear and
discomfort, which affects the performance at the office, in the end agan sista
have the desire to resign from work. And to find work is not easy lho.
If agan
already dizzy, stress, depressed by the boss is angry, and can not act more
(even to choose to resign) you need to read the tips of the following ane,
cekidot!
1. Keep good communication with the boss
1. thing you can do to try to deal with a grumpy boss is good two-way
communication. Lack of positive communication between the boss and the
subordinate will make no sense of emotional attachment is good so that the
intensity of the boss angry to us much more. Try to build and maintain good
communication with the boss, do not be afraid to say hello when agan cysts meet
with the boss on the street.
Try to start
by saying "Hi", "Good Day / Evening / Morning" to your
boss, this may start to feel heavy, but if it's often, it can be a good habit
to start a more active communication. Oh yes, when agan cysts greet the boss
try with a friendly intonation and scream the most beautiful smile agan sista
ya emoticon-Big Grin.
In addition,
agan cysts need to always control the tone of speech to the boss as a follow-up
step to be able to establish a good relationship with the boss. Intonation of
speech is very important to the speaker, let alone talk to the boss who tipekal
grumpy or rada-rada sensi. One little intonation can trigger the boss's
annoyance, so always try not to intervene or cut the conversation when the boss
talks. The most important thing is never to speak with a facial expression that
challenges the boss. That can make the boss so angry you know.
2. Recognize
the mind of the boss
Angry boss
there is a variety of yes, there are deliberately provoked emotions and make
subordinates upset, and there is also sensitive. This sensitive boss type can
get angry because of trivial things. You need to recognize and classify which
type of boss you are. Oh yes, every boss may have different things that can
make them angry. Agan sista must start to recognize the nature of the boss. It
can be done by learning things that boss likes and dislikes. Learn the reasons
the boss likes to get angry. To find out can be merhatiin the boss directly or
can also ask to other colleagues who have known long with the boss. Well if you
already know, do not try to do something that the boss does not like, and
always do prevention.
2. 3. Socialize with the boss outside
office hours
As an
explanation at the first point, agan sista can try to approach a more personal
with the boss after there is good communication. Slowly bond with your boss
outside office hours. You can try to get a sports boss together, eat together,
and when the birthday boss gives a little greeting and surprise to the boss
with colleagues. Important should be distinguished by socializing with face
search. Do not let our boss even our co-workers so misunderstand the thought we
want to seek face. Must be clever-clever carrying ourselves so there is no
misunderstanding with the boss let alone our co-workers.
After a
relationship with the boss outside of working hours, the intensity of the angry
boss in the office can be slightly reduced and the personal emotional ties can
be well established.
4. Avoid
conflicts
The next
thing that can be done to overcome the angry boss is to always avoid conflict
with the boss. To avoid conflict with the boss can be the easiest way is, to
try to finish the task given the boss is completed on time and will be better
before the deadline is given. This can reduce the reason the boss to anger to
agan cyst, because one factor that can make a boss grumpy is when his
subordinates did not complete the task on time.
Next try not
to contradict what the boss tells and do not forget to try to think from other
point of view, if it is true deviate or we are not comfortable to do it, try to
refrain not to argue and support it, you can try to explain it personally after
The mood of sadness.
It is no
less important, do not ever provoke emotion with the boss in front of
colleagues agan like denied and supported the boss command. It can be
considered against what the boss says and has no respect for the boss's orders,
sometimes the boss has a high ego to not be challenged and criticized by
subordinates in front of other employees in a way that is less polite of
course. If agan upset with the boss command, do not try to talk about the bad
boss or gossipin boss agan, that's wrong, if the boss until tau can nasty later
affairs.
5. Courteous
The next
step that you can do to make the boss angry will be more "benign" the
same key cyst is polite. Perhaps almost everyone wants to be respected and
respected by others, as well as with the boss, let alone he has more positions
above and we just as subordinates, for the right kind of politeness is always
maintained gan. Courteous is not just the way we talk to the boss but, but from
our attitude, including dressing in front of the boss, and polite body language
to the boss so that the emotions of the boss are not hooked.
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