Your Work Friends Iri? Here's How to Deal with It!

Maybe you're facing a co-worker who likes to knock you ahead of your boss, vilify you in front of everyone, or always criticize the way you work. Though you never had a problem with it.

Well, it looks like you currently have "enemies" in the office who do not like you or envy your performance that always performs.

But do not face them with the frontal, because you are also the one who will lose. It's good to follow some elegant ways below:

1. "Enemy" Also Man

First of all you have to put your co-worker as a man who has shortcomings and advantages. Apart from work problems, he must be a good person who became his family's and children's favorite.

So than you immediately claim that your partner is evil, it's good if you invite him to lunch together or drink coffee in the office at rest. This could be your strategy of gathering information why he hates you so much. Maybe there's something you do and you do not realize. Taking him to friends will make him stop hostile to you.

2. Ask for Advice from him

When your colleagues criticize your strategy during a meeting in front of the boss, ask him directly to suggest what he thinks is more brilliant to run. If you have a sincere intention, your partner will always have an idea. Conversely, if the criticism is just a trick to bring you down, then he will panic and will embarrass himself in front of all participants meeting.

You should also be ready to run his work idea, if he has a good idea. But when the idea fails, you can elegantly say, "Well, your idea did not go well, so let's run my way."

3. Do not React Too Fast

When your teammates blow false rumors or gossip about you, it's good that you do not immediately react and get angry. Calm yourself and if you can not worry too much. Better focus on the work you are doing.

As long as you do right, then you do not have to worry. Precisely your work will prove to the office management if you are a professional and adult workers in the face of problems.

If you respond to rumors and gossip, then people will think that rumors and gossip is true.

4. Be Professional

Keep doing the tasks and work that is your responsibility professionally. Do not be childish, like refusing to work in a team with her. Keep it simple and do not show it if you can not work with it.

Do not show mercy if your colleague fails while doing his job. If she asks for help, give according to your capacity and ability. Do not exaggerate.

5. Avoid Revenge

Even if you are very upset and bored with your coworkers, you should never take revenge by turning badly to him and complaining to other colleagues or bosses.

If the boss asks the question personally, you can explain it plainly. Which is definitely not you who started to provide information about your colleagues.

This method is usually powerful enough to create an image that you are actually a good person, because it never talks bad about other people, even though you are often the object of office gossip.

Being elegant in the face of colleagues who do not like you in the office will prove to everyone that you are a professional worker and even better than your "enemy".