It's How To Address Shy and Closed Children

           Every child has different characters and personality, some like to talk, story, be curious, brave, quiet, shy and even timid. Among the many characters of children, the attitude of quiet and closed into one of the characters are rather difficult to understand and dive.

Silent children will usually face problems in the interaction and also interaction with other children because more likely to enjoy his own world and difficult to open up. Surely parents should be aware of the personality of this type of child and role to help children out of the zone.

                                     

The way that parents should be done to these shy and closed-type children are:

-Encourage children to socialize

Even if a closed child does not like the crowded environment, parents should invite him to bersoasialisasi with others intensely. For example by visiting family homes, neighbors or events-birthday and so forth. Closed attitude will definitely decrease when you often bring him to meet new people.

-Develop his talents

Closed children will usually be less likely to dislike public appearances and get the attention of many people. From that, consider the talents of your children and encourage them to further hone that ability. Usually these types of children tend to prefer to paint and play the piano.

-Guide the child to be free to vote

Parental attitudes that are too overprotective or hard on the child can actually rooted in changes in child behavior. From that, make it a habit to educate children by giving free choice in determining for themselves what they want and willing to deliver freely to you.

-Create a special time for the child

No doubt work in the big cities will be vulnerable to take time together parents with children. With that make your special time with the child, because for a closed child, a moment of togetherness filled with telling stories, joking and talking about school and friends will provoke him to be more open.

-Guide the child to have confidence

Many of the shy and closed-minded children feel less confident, compare themselves with others and think of themselves as nothing more than others. Parents should duly give him support and motivation in the form of praise and appreciation of his grades in school and assure that he can do many things.

A parent's study depends heavily on the child's personality. From that, parents become the closest people who can help shy and closed children to get out of their zones and can build good social relationships with others.